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Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Go Deep with love for each other

"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her........ This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church." - Ephesians 5:22-32



The above verse is usually used to describe the roles of the husband and wife in the context of marriage. But last night it was shared with a different perspective. Verse 32 says "but i am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.". This means that all the above actually describes the r/s between the husband (Christ) and the wife (the church). This means that as Christ loves us and gave Himself up for us, we are to submit ourselves to Christ out of the love we have for Him.



Ps shared last night about the difference between friends and family. What really hit me was the word commitment. That it is beyond the closeness that we so often deem as crucial in our G12 family. It should start from a commitment, a decision that you make saying that you will be part of this family and will make an effort to become close, and not the other way round of be close first then commit to the family.



Do you love the church? You might ask who is the church? The church is us! We are all like the brides that are awaiting the bridegroom. But it is not easy to love this church. We all have our own patterns, our own idiosyncrasies, and parts of us that irritate other people. We each play a unique part in the family. But if we are committed to build this family, all these 'bad' things will not matter.



As i was reflecting on last night's message, God brought me back to the times of the Tripod. It seems like we unknowingly did the right thing! Haha! We were all commited to making Danny successful. I had to make that choice and commit to being part of the family as i was "new" and had other priorities; They had to make the choice and commit to take me in as part of the family. And so we made time to meet up and to share even when we were uncomfortable. Meeting 5 times a week is no joke.. haha.... Even as we did all these, the closeness came and the love for one another developed. Do we still irritate one another?? Of coz! But it is the commitment that has brought us through, coz we are all committed to building this family together with Danny... commited to prep this church for the groom to come, and we submitted everything to Christ.



This specially goes out to DE24: As our family grows bigger, how can we pass this on to our sons/daughters? We need to lead by example. We need to be committed to growing this family and to love one another. This means we have to put down our rights & pride, put each others needs as more important as our own, align all our priorities towards buiding this family, settle all existing unhappiness and misunderstandings and to truely love one another. That's how a family should be and not one tat appears good on the outside but have many undercurrents that threathens the stability of the family. Let's not make the same mistakes again. It blocks what the Lord wants to do thru us and it is certainly not a show for our people to watch.



Its time to be serious. Time to get things right and time to go deeper in love for each other. Commit to settling things at the cross. Nothing should be more important than the family, than the church.


Lion+el

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